Elder Steed is staying in Sobral

This week was a short email because of having just writen on Wednesday.   
                                                                                                            
So it looks like Connor gets to stay with his companion until his companion finishes his mission. His entire apartment is staying together which Connor is very excited for. They've all gotten very close and as Connor put it "have seriously had some of the funniest times together!" He was super super nervous for this transfer because he thought for sure he would get transferred and start training another missionary. He is very glad to stay because he knows the area, he knows his companion, he knows the members, and so now he can focus on really working (as he put it).

The greatest news was the baptism of C--- this past Saturday. He said it was amazing! He wrote, "It was seriously the most surreal feeling I can't describe. I said the ordinance perfectly and I only had to do it once. It was a super great experience for me!" This was the first time Connor has ever baptized anyone so it was an experience he will never forget. He tried to upload a photo, but was having problems - so maybe he will send it next week.

Carnaval, Wedding & Baptisms

We didn't get our traditional email from Connor this past Monday because it was Carnaval and all the internet houses they go to were closed. During Carnaval things get pretty crazy and so the missionaries have to be in their houses by 6 pm each night. Carnaval ran from Friday to Tuesday. He and his companion  hardly got any teaching done this past week because of the festivities.

 

They still had a super amazing wedding and baptism combo this past weekend of the 9th. Elder O and Connor had been working with the couple from the first week he got in Sobral, but Elder M and Elder A (the elders he's living with) got to baptize them because they taught them for the last half of the discussions. It was super amazing for Connor to see them get married and baptized one day after the other.

This coming week... Connor will have his first baptism! Her name is C and she's about 40 years old. Connor says that she is super super amazing and is definitely going to be a leader in the church. Connor wrote, "She's literally the most perfect investigator and future member and she'll be my first baptism. I'm super stoked!! I've been practicing the "wording" for the baptism like crazy this past week because I really don't want to mess up my first baptism hahaha."

D & C's wedding day. Hahaha this was seriously the weirdest picture ever

.... but they wanted to do it and it was their wedding haha. We got some looks from people ;)

 

D & C's baptism!

Street Contacts

Connor's first week in Sobral, he and his companion contacted a couple on the streets. They have been working with them since the end of November. At the beginning of the last transfer, they divided his area, so the other missionaries he was living with got the couple to teach. They decided to get married this Friday and then get baptized on Saturday. Connor said he was still counting them as a baptism for him because he and his companion along with the other companionship have been working with them for the last 2 months. 

Connor wrote:

"It's amazing to see the difference in their lives now. Both of them are definitely going to be leaders in the church and they pretty young with a little girl and little boy. Super super cool!!"

Connor's shoes are already falling apart after just 2 months of really using them. Yikes! He still has 20 months to go. We did send him with 2 pairs and so hopefully the others are holding up.

4 Month Mark

Connor hit his 4 month mark! He wrote "only 20 more to go". Hahaha

This past week he and O went to Camocim which is right on the end of the ocean. It was super pretty there! They went there to help out a companionship in their district. They set up a table in the middle of a park and just did contacts for about four hours. He said it was actually really fun, but kind of tricky at the same time.

Connor wrote:

"So about the food. I haven't really eaten anything too weird. It's literally beans, rice, and spaghetti noodles every meal and you mix it together. There will usually be chicken or beef with it as well. I think we've had lasagna about three times and that's probably the only "different" thing we've eaten haha. Nothing too crazy! I've seen some weird stuff on the streets though. You'll be walking and see a HUGE heart from some animal with flies all over it and a puddle of blood underneath it hahaha. Kinda weird ;)"

He is happy, healthy and having an amazing experience sharing the gospel to the wonderful people of Brasil.

Teaching in Camocim

Ward Activity

1st Baptisms

Ola! Connor got his first 2 baptisms this past Saturday (1-19-13). One was an 8 year old boy and the other was a 16 year old girl. He was so happy for them and the opportunity to teach them the Gospel.

 

 

Connor encourgaed everyone to watch "The Atonement: How It Applies To Missionary Work". Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6FKiNVbw3Y

 I can't paraphrase this part and so I am posting Connor's own words:

In the poorer part of my area, I get little kids that come up to me and say "fala ingles!" ("speak english!"). And trying to be funny with them if we're in a rush, all I'll say to them is "ingles!" They all pause for a second, and then realize it was a joke and they all start cracking up. I've also had kids come up to me and ask what their name is in english. And just messing with them, I'll say something like "saggy bum". They get the biggest smile and then they turn to their friends and keep saying "saggy bum! saggy bum!" It's seriously the funnist thing in the world :)

The language is coming along, but the investigators are still struggeling to understand him.

He'll say everything correctly, but because of the tone and maybe not speaking loud enough, people have a harder time understanding him. So there have been multiple times where he's said something, the person won't understand, and then his companion will say the EXACT same thing and they'll understand. Kind of frustrating for him, but he kind of thinks it's funny too.

 He said to tell everyone that he loves them!

Notice the fly on his forehead. It had just rained and so the flies were everywhere :).

Each week I have been posting pictures and emails from my son who is serving his mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the Brasil Teresina Mission. I just received word from a missionary moms email group that I belong to that each email we receive from our missionary is copyrighted and cannot be posted on a blog or on facebook. So the only posts that will be forthcoming will be brief comments about his letter (in my own words), where he is serving and some pictures that he sends. I was really bummed to hear this news, but it obviously is to protect the missionaries, the people they are serving and the church.

Connor's letter this week was super short and so here are the highlights:

• The missionaries in their apartment leave their window open at night to help combat the heat, but when they wake up there are mosquitos splattered on their wall. Apparently the fans blowing on them not only help to keep them cool at night but it also blows the mosquitos away.

Dead mosquitos on wall (picture doesn't do it justice)

• Two weeks ago it rained so hard that it created small rivers in the streets and churned up all of the junk at the bottom of the river. Because of that it turned their drinking water yellow. Connor braved it and cooked spagetti in the yellow water killing the bacteria as it boiled. The food tasted fine-just looked weird cooking in yellow water.
• The damage from the yellow water were 3 of his white dress shirts got stained :(.
• One of his roommates, Elder B was transferred, but they got Elder M who is apparently awesome.

Me, Elder M, Elder A, Elder O

Had to stick a grocery bag over my bag because it was raining so much.

I look absolutely ridiculous with it, but it worked! Hahaha



Obra missionaria até o pó! (Missionary work in the dust!)

My lovely family! 

So I actually did get the Ensign! It was brought to me this past week and I've been really enjoying studying it! Thank you sooo much! And tell Grandma I said thanks! A realy cool thing in the Ensign is there is a picture from my area (Sobral, Brazil) in the November Ensign (pg. 59)! The chapel in the background is the stake center here! At first, I thought it looked really familiar, and then I read the little caption and got so excited because Sobral isn't that big (I don't think) and so it was cool seeing that in the Ensign.

Funny thing... People think we work at the grocery store here. The outfits are a button-up white polo with dark slacks. And so we have had a lot of people come up to us, asking where things are. At first we kept telling them we didn't work there and they got super embarrassed and it was super awkward. But now since we have been there so much and pretty much know where everything is, we just help people out hahaha.

About the language. I can talk with my companion really well because he knows how I talk and I can pretty much get my point across about anything I want. I'm slowly starting to ask my questions during lesson and I'm able to follow the conversation really well if it's Elder O talking, because its doctrine and that's pretty much all I've been studying.

About my companion... He's been out for a year and nine months and he still doesn't know how to plan very well. So we have spent a lot of time standing on the side of the road deciding who we can teach because all of our appointments fell through. All I'm pretty much doing with him is trying to help as much as I can, but also sitting back and picking out the things that aren't working, so I can do it better when I'm a trainer. Super frustrating right now, but there's not a whole lot I can do except keep going and following him and hoping he knows what to do haha. Otherwise, things have been really good! Things aren't absolutely terrible, but there definitely not where I want them to be when it comes to working and talking with people. We are working with a bunch of people and its coming, but no baptisms yet. I guess we were put in a harder area because in our ward, we have 10% of the members. The other members live in another area. And yes, we have two companionships working with one ward. I don't know why, but that's just how it is haha.

This past week, we were talking with this man on the side of the road and his kid turned around, pulled down his pants... all the way, and then started peeing on the wall. It was hard to hold back a smile. .......... And this is why I love Brasil.

So to answer your questions... Yes we did work on New Years, but it was a whole lot of nothing because EVERYONE was drinking. All I can say is that we were approached a lot by drunk people telling us they were Jesus Christ and other absolutely hilarious things. And about transfers, today is transfer day, so I don't know why Elder R was transferred. And yes I'm pretty sure i'll stay with my companion (and I'm still with him right now), but its not positive. Because my companion said he had two trainers during the twelve weeks. Elder A is serving in Belo Horizonte, a completely different mission from the rest of us. My district in the CTM was Teresina and Curitiba people and Elder A was the only odd man out.

I also finally sent off that package this past week, so I'm really praying that it'll get to you just fine!

Love you so so so much!!!

Obra missionaria até o pó!

(Missionary work in the dust!)

Elder O and I being silly with a machete

 

The dead lizard we found in our water pipe.

Our washer is still flooding. Maybe there's one more in there.



Christmas!

I spent my Christmas morning (about 1 am) sitting on the floor of another companionships house. After the caroling and HUGE dinner on Christmas Eve, we waited for a taxi because our house was super far away. A taxi never came because they were too busy driving all the drunks. A miracle happened and somehow a nonmember stopped by and gave us all rides, but this was already at about 2 in the morning on Christmas morning. While we were sitting, waiting for a taxi, I was talking with another American about how we spend Christmas. It definitely brought back some really good memories of all the lights off, except the Christmas tree, and how cozy it felt. Also about how you would make muffins after opening gifts, and it would smell the house up. There were a lot of other details that we talked about that I never realized before until I didn't have them on my Christmas day haha. It was good though! It made me really appreciate the tight family we have because on Christmas day (after lunch) we went to work. I saw a lot of people sitting on the sidewalks that have absolutely nothing (including a house) except the clothes on their back and a bottle of alcohol next to them. It was really sad... We seriously have it SOO well in the US where we live. I wish you could spend one day with me and see the things we see.

That Christmas package was AMAZING!!! I absolutely loved all of the gifts that went with the scriptures and a lot of them made me laugh!! Thank you soooooo much!!! The other missionaries that I'm living with were drooling over all the candy and snacks inside haha :)

FREAKING BRAND NEW HOUSE!!! So this past week we moved houses because the house we were in sucked hardcore haha. Long story short, the house is amazing because the house was just built and we're the first ones to live in it. The only problem is that when we started our washer for the clothes for the first time, it started to flood where the dirty water exits. It wasn't that big of a deal because it's outside, but we found the problem of why it was flooding. A dead lizard (about the length of your hand and fore-arm combined) was hanging out in the piping when we turned on the water. It drowned him out and we found him floating at the top of the pipe that went into the ground. We think there's another one in the piping that's stuck because we're still getting flooding, so yeah..... hahahaha. Fun stuff :) I'm sorry, I don't have any pictures right now, but I'll work on it!!

A challenge for you and dad... I highly encourage that you read and study "Teaching Chastity and Virtue" by Matthew O. Richardson (Oct. 2012 Liahona). I was studying this talk during my study time and all I could think of was Parker. We need him to know NOW that our bodies are sacred. I just don't want anything to happen to him. You and dad are AMAZING parents, but it's scary how early kids are doing things. I've seen kids (about 10 years old) with cigarettes, tattoos, a bottle of alcohol next to them, and who knows what other things they've done. It's weird... It's so weird...

We were FINALLY able to get a family of four to come to church with us and it was amazing!! I thought it went really well and they said they liked that, so I take that as a thumbs up :)

PS. Tell John Timms I said hi!

LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!

Elder Steed

The last 3 weeks-Humbling

(Tuesday 11/27/12) It's so hot here. Hahaha. Immediately as I stepped off the plane I started melting in my suit. The first day I got to Teresina, we all went to the mission home and were taught about how to survive here. Hahaha. President Seidschlag and his wife are so awesome! I feel like they're going to be great. I had hardly eaten anything all morning long, so at about 3:00 pm President and Sister Seidschlag took us all out to this buffet restaurant where I ate like a king. I felt like I cleaned them out. We then just sat around the mission home (it's more like an office type setting) until we were interviewed. The "Portuguese 24/7" thing is killing me. There's been some Brasilians here that speak pretty good English, so they've helped out a lot. Oh, I forgot to tell you . . . I went up with Elder R, Elder W, Elder A, Elder L and three other Brasilians.

Later that night, we took our stuff to an apartment where we stayed that night. That night was probably the hardest night since I've been in Brasil. I was covered in sweat and felt so nasty, we had one little ceiling fan that hardly worked, there were ten of us in a room, about the size of our living room, on bunk beds. And then six others that actually live there slept in different rooms. The place was so nasty and packed, but I guess I'll have to get used to it. We never got dinner (I think because of the big lunch) so I munched on some Doritos that you gave me (thank you so much). I definitely cried that night to myself and said, "What am I doing here?" I prayed really long and hard for strength and some sort of hope to get through this. I really started having doubts and regretting my decision to go on a mission. I really hate to say that, but that's what was going through my head that night. That day was not good to me at all.

(Wednesday 11/28/12) I definitely think my prayers were answered because the next day was a lot better. We were at the church all day learning about the specifics about being a missionary, our credit card, baptismal goals, schedule, teaching techniques, stuff like that. We also got our companion and area. My companions name is Elder O. He's from Sao Paulo and has super dark skin - haha. He's been out for a year and eight months. He seems like such a cool guy, but he speaks way crazy fast so I have him repeat almost everything he says or I just nod my head and pretend like I know what he's saying. I haven't had/ to do that a lot though. I'm going to Sobral which is right next to the boundary of the Fortaleza Mission (to the east). I was told it can get a little windy there, which is awesome. I also heard that it's a fairly well rounded area. What that exactly means, I have no idea. We were at the church from about 9 am until 7 pm. It was lots and lots of Portuguese-only. After that we went to President and Sister Seidschlag's place to eat. They literally live in this penthouse in a skyscraper apartment thing. It's so nice and they had maids working for them. That was such a glorious dinner. I slept a lot better that night.

(Thursday 11/29/12) I've been writing all of this on the six hour bus ride to Sobral. This morning has been a little rough on me. I said goodbye to the last Americans I know and I'm pretty much throwing away English for the next couple months. It's been so so so hard to communicate with my companion because I know what I want to say in English, but I'm having to baby down my sentences just to get my point across. As we were sitting at the bus station, waiting for the bus, I started thinking about stuff and all of a sudden I started to ball my eyes out. My companion asked if I missed my family and all I could do was nod my head. I kept saying, "It's so hard, it's so hard." He put his arm around me and said that everything is going to be okay. I immediately stopped crying, shook it off, grabbed my things, and followed him onto the bus.

I'm now in Sobral and it's Monday, December 3rd. I haven't had any time to write because I've been so busy. Things are definitely a lot better now. But seriously though, I can't describe it on paper and I did a crappy job at trying, but I was a mess those first couple of days after I left the CTM. Mentally, physically, and spiritually drained. I think once I got settled in, things started to roll. My companion has been a life-saver. I'm living in a "descent" apartment with amazing elders. The people here are amazing, the members have been so loving, and the Portuguese is coming a little better.

The first morning I woke up here, I woke up to what sounded like screaming children (I kid you not). It turns out they have a pig and goat/lamb auction thing right outside our window. They're all still alive and they know where they are going and so they scream bloody-murder. It's such a weird thing. I guess they do this almost every morning, but it's only happened three (I've lost count - hahaha) times since I've been here.

Also on the first day, I got to go to the ghetto of Sobral. It was seriously probably one of the most humbling things I've seen. I felt embarrassed to be an American and about the things I complain about. We went to go meet the Bishop there, to have lunch at his place. They're probably one of the nicest families I've met and they made us a huge lunch that was so good.

Every day here we've had lunch at a members house and they've fed us well. I don't eat dinner until I get back at 9:00 pm which kinda sucks, but whatever.

It's amazing how accepting the people are here. You can almost go up to anyone, talk to them for a little, and then ask if you can come by some other time and they'll almost always accept. This first week, we've only met members and done street contacts. We haven't taught any lessons yet.

Ah! If you can find it (I'm pretty sure you can on Youtube), look up "The Atonement: How It Applies To Missionary Work". That stuff gets me going . . . To me, I think this is the best thing the church has put out. Actually, I don't think the church made it. It might have been a member. It has President Eyring and Elder Holland speaking in it. It's got piano music in it if that helps at all. It's such an inspiring video non-the-less. (Here is the address: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6FKiNVbw3Y)

So some basics about how I'm staying alive . . . haha. Each morning for breakfast I have oatmeal with cut up bananas and apples along with some bread. I thought I was super awesome for eating healthy, but it's starting to get really old. I think I'll need to change it up real soon here. And about the piece of bread . . . I've been eating hamburger buns. Why? Because that's what missionaries do! And plus I can. Hahaha. For lunch we've always eaten at a members place. Nothing too crazy yet. Always rice and beans along with possibly spaghetti noodles, lasagna, some sort of meat, and soda haha. For dinner, we don't eat until 9 when we get back. It's usually just been snackyish foods or something really easy to make like top ramen.

The language is going okay. I can communicate with my companion fairly well, but with other people it's a little tricky. My companion knows how I speak so he can understand. With other people, some things don't make sense because of the way I say it. The hardest thing of all is understanding . I'm having the hardest time understanding people. During a lesson I can follow along fairly well because it's gospel material, but most things outside of that, I'm lost. There have been many lessons where all I've done is bare my testimony at the end. One of the other elders I'm living with said that a super great way to speak is to literally drop all English, especially with studying. I should only use my English books if I can't figure out what it's saying. Another good thing he said to do was to read the Book of Mormon in Portuguese out loud.

About washing my clothes, we've got a washer here to ourselves. But we don't have a dryer . . . so we have to hand dry everything. It's actually not too bad, just a little time consuming because the washer takes about three hours to do its thing, and then hand drying takes another good couple of hours.

THE TAN LINES ARE BEGINNING TO FORM!!!!!! I've got a descent watch tan line now and I know it's only going to get worse hahaha. It gets sooo hot here, but the super amazing part is that there's wind here in Sobral. There's almost always a nice little breeze, which saves me from the heat. But really . . . it's hot here.

I'm not sure if I made this clear, but I'm living with three other guys. My companion and another companionship. The other elders are Elder B and Elder A. They're both Brasilian, but Elder B looks like he's American. They're both so amazing, pretty clean, very organized, and on top of things. I think the messiest one is my companion, but it's not even that bad.

So I'm working on a package to send to you guys for Christmas, But I know you won't get it in time, so please be looking for that! I haven't sent it yet because I'm still trying to figure things out and make it. It won't be much, but I'll do my best :).

After the first four days, we started walking A LOT! Each night when we would come home, I would be absolutely disgusting, covered in sweat and feeling so sticky and everything would hurt. I would shower, eat a little, write in my journal, and as soon as my head would hit the pillow, I'd be out. I remember one night as I was laying on my bed, about to go to sleep, I was saying to myself "OH MY GOSH! THIS BED FEELS SOOOO GOOD!" even though it's probably the crappiest bed. Hahaha.

As a missionary, I'm starting to appreciate some of the simplest things. One time a member gave us some ice cream. I lit up like a Christmas tree because it was so hot and it was the most perfect thing at that moment.

I love you so much!!!!!!

Elder Steed

Great Companion!

So I guess I was able to get a little email time in today! I'm in Teresina right now because we had a conference with the Area President (or something like that haha). It was amazing.. at least for the parts I could understand haha. We spent 8ish hours traveling yesterday by bus to get here. We've got until I think 10:30 pm to do whatever (because that's when our bus leaves).

About the Skype and Christmas situation... I have ZERO idea about what's going to happen and it's so frustrating. I'm for sure going to figure it all out this week and then I'll be able to tell you next Monday (Christmas Eve).

So it turns out I've got one of the better areas in the Teresina Mission. It's also one of the hotter areas (right behind Teresina). We've got cleaner water here (I'm still not going to take my chances and drinking it) in Sobral. Today at the conference, people were telling me that they were jealous of my area haha. Being here in Teresina, I miss Sobral because it is soo miserably hot here!!

About the missionary work... We haven't baptized anyone yet, but we're getting close :) We met this lady because she was sitting outside of her house one day and during the conversation she just starting crying really hard and she kept telling us that her life is really difficult right now. We set up another date to return, but she wasn't there. And ever since we've been stopping by about every day to see if we could chat for a little and she's either gone or her husband tells us to leave without letting her know that we came. I think on Saturday, we FINALLY were able to catch her while she was home and teach her. Right after the lesson, we invited her to be baptized and she accepted. It was really crazy seeing someone accept a baptismal invitation right after the first lesson. We're trying to get her baptized sometime in January.

We've got another kid (just turned eight) that we're teaching and we're planning on baptizing him at the end of December. His family is only family members with no one holding the priesthood, so that's why we've been teaching him. It's been super exciting!!!

We also have this husband and wife we've been teaching that seem pretty golden and they've been progressing really well! We were finally able to invite them to come to church, but we forgot we weren't going to be there because we were going to be in Teresina. We had to quickly run by and ask if a member could come pick them up and take them to church. We were praying yesterday that everything went well and they enjoyed it.

I really love the members here. We've been fed really well and they've been helpful with helping us out with random stuff.

So I've heard from a bunch of different people that I'm with an amazing companion. And it's definitely true. He's been very helpful and very good at teaching the lessons. I'm still struggling with the language and so sometimes I'll sit the entire lesson and not say anything (even though I'm trying so hard to think of a good question or comment). But my companion has been really good at letting me bare my testimony and making me read some scriptures if needed.

Craziness... Literally as we were walking out the door to go to the bus station for Teresina, we were locking the door behind us and the frickin key broke and half of it was stuck in the lock. We were able to get the little piece out, but we couldn't lock the door. Being already a little late, we were running around the house, grabbing anything valuable, and locking it in a suitcase that had a padlock on it. We were kind of freaking out because our room would be completely open to anyone. Lucky our apartment building has a gate on the front to keep out any creepers, but still... We had to say a quick prayer right before we left. We made it to the bus station with only a minute to spare haha.

About me and my body... I haven't gotten sick yet which is awesome for being an American and for the first time being out in the field, but it's bound to happen soon. I do have the squirts though about every morning in case you're wondering ;) The only problem with my feet is that the arch support has been sliding forward in my shoe a little, so there's been a little gap between the back of the arch support and the heel part of the shoe. I've been getting some weird rubbing there, but it's starting to caulis up and been fine. I was using the mole skin which helped!
And for my weight.. I don't think a whole lot has changed. I'm pretty sure I've gained a little, but not a whole lot. I've been the only guy in my apartment to work out every morning using an elastic band and basic pushups and sit-ups. So I'm kinda proud of that.

My time is running thin, so I gotta bounce! I sent a letter through MissionTies so I hope you got it!! I'll definitely let you know about the Skype thing this next Monday. If for some reason something doesn't work out, just be on Skype all day long and make sure the computer stays awake.

I love you sooo much Mom! I think about you guys every day!!

Elder Steed

Life in Sobral

 Tracting the streets of Sobral.

 Our apartment enjoying some pizza!

Map of where Sobral is in northeastern Brasil.

My room!

Elder Stee-jee

Ola :)

 

I first wanted to start of with that I don't think we should use Mission Ties any more. I only get mail once a month so I think it would be useless for you to send me mail through Mission Ties every week and I get it all on one day. So I think the best thing to do is to just stick to emailing. And another thing... I hardly have any time to write ;( So emailing would be better!!

I'm so sorry, but I still haven't been able to send that first letter off with all the details on it because I've been soo busy. I'm planning on doing that today or in the next couple days.

I think today I'll just write a bunch of random things that has happened, but next week I'll start doing a day by day thing using my journal so I don't miss anything.

I still haven't gotten the Ensign grandma sent. They probably had it at the mission home, but they didn't give it to me because they were worried about getting me the package you sent. I'm going to Teresina next week for a conference, so I hope I get it then.

People pronounce my name so funny here. I think for the next two years I'll be known as Elder Stee-jee (or Ste-jee). Kinda funny.

Fun fact. I've already had a shoe thrown at me. It came nowhere close, but some group of kids were hanging out (and I actually think they were drinking), but as we were walking by, they tried to throw a shoe at us! I actually thought it was really funny. After it was thrown, we just kept walking as if nothing happened hahaha.

The tree is up!! After about a solid 30 minutes, Elder O and I finally figured the tree out hahaha. I've got it taped up right now and it looks awesome! Thank you soo much! I also noticed there's an ornament for each day, so I've been puttig one up each day. Once Christmas rolls around and we've got all the gifts and ornaments up, I'll send you a picture!

A super hard thing for me right now is the water. I've been told that the water in Sobral is pretty good, but I don't know if it would be good to me, being an American. So I've been having to buy all of my drinking water. It kinda sucks, but I'll have to get used to it. I've tried boiling the water, but for some reason it tastes so nasty and bleaching tastes worse haha.

I love you sooo much!!!!!

Elder Steed

Holy moly Teresina is hot!!

President & Sister Alvacir L. Siedschlag

Welcome to the Brasil Teresina Mission

Elder Steed's trainer Elder O

Comforting Elder W

I'm alive!!! :) :) :)

Holy moly Teresina is hot!! So I get an hour every Monday (my p-day) to email, but I still need to kindof make it quick! So I'm serving in the city of Sobral. It's actually SUPER amazing here! They've definitely got some of the saddest housing I've ever seen, but then they've also got some really awesome parts! I'm not going to bother sending you any pictures because it'll take to long, but I hope you look it up and possibly google map it.

My trainer is super amazing! The only bummer is that he knows very little english... hardly any. So it's been EXTREMELY difficult to communicate with him, but I think I know enough to get my point across :) His name is Elder O. I'm currently living with two other elders. They're both super awesome and they both know a lot of english which has helped me out a TON. Elder B and Elder... shoot, forgot his name haha.

Literally every day I come home feeling sticky and nasty haha. I guess this is a better area because there's more wind here.

I'm going to end this email and try to send you some pictures. If I have more to say, I'll come back and keep writing. I'm also doing a missionties letter that will be in more detail.

LOVE YOU SOO MUCH!!!

Elder Steed

Last days in the CTM

Holy moly. So by the time you get this letter, I'll already be in the field for one day. I haven't gotten the details yet, but I'll be leaving the MTC sometime on Tuesday morning. We had a health seminar on Thursday night about how to literally survive. Hahaha. It definitely scared me a little, hearing about all the weird bugs you can get. And I guess about 2 months ago, they discontinued these water bottle/water filters because they haven't been working and missionaries have been getting sick. So for the next couple months, I'm going to have to rely on store bought, boiled, and bleached water. I had no idea you could bleach water and still drink it. We also got an elastic workout band and a small book on some of the most ridiculous ways you can use the band. There is some of the weirdest stuff in there! Sadly enough, I'll probably end up using it to work out. A cool little statistic they gave in that seminar . . . If every missionary talked to ten people each day, which would be about 1 person every hour, about half a million people would hear the gospel each day in the world.

On Thursday we decided to play volleyball with the other district that we came out of Atlanta with. We haven't had the same gym time the entire time we've been here, so we thought it'd be fun to play against them. We knew it would kind of be competitive because we jokingly talked some trash before hand, but nothing too bad. We started playing and it started to get really bad. Long story short, I left that game extremely frustrated and it kind of ruined the spirit for me for the rest of the day. We wanted to play again on Saturday and do the same thing, but do it a lot more low key to make sure we don't have the same problem as last time. We started to play and it was going really well up until the end. A questionable call was made and everyone started to raise their voice and get extremely angry. Right as that happened, Elder Farr (another elder in my district) and I left immediately because we didn't want to be involved in that again. We decided to go lift instead, which was a super good choice. This was my little proud moment of the week for walking away from something like that instead of arguing and getting angry.

On Friday, we had seminars all day long and they were ALL in Portuguese. I guess it was no different from out normal classes because they're all in Portuguese too. I think the thing that made it really difficult was that we had to sit American, Brasilian, American, Brasilian, etc . . . They forced us to share with the Brasilian next to us about what was being discussed. So I literally think I went from lunch until bed time (not including dinner) speaking Portuguese only. In our normal classes, our teachers generally know enough English to help us out when we don't know something in Portuguese. It was definitely an eye opener on how the field is going to be like. There are some Brasilians here that love to help you with the language and are super patient, but then there are others who absolutely hate Americans. There are only a small handful, that I know of, who hate Americans. The rest either mostly love to help you or they don't have the patients to teach you something about the language right on the spot.

Today at church I was called on to give a talk. Right after the sacrament was over the conductor of the meeting stood up to say who was giving the talks that Sunday. I had no idea beforehand because they tell you you're speaking at the last minute. They called on me, Elder A, Elder H and Elder L. I was the first one to speak, which was awesome because I really didn't have time to be worried about speaking. I spoke on humility and it went really well. We're only asked to speak for 5 minutes, but in all Portuguese, so it wasn't that bad. I also was the conductor for music today as well. I totally killed it :).

I shed a small tear because today (Sunday) would be the last day that I would take a nap in the next two years. I've been told all about how Sundays will be the busiest day.

So we went proselyting today (Monday, Nov. 26). Not as successful as last week, but it was still awesome! We took public transportation to a place that literally looked like New York. There were blocks and blocks of huge skyscrapers. It wasn't as packed as New York, but SUPER cool non-the-less. We left late so when we got there, we only had 10 minutes to proselyte which really sucked, but we gave away two copies of the Book of Mormon in that amount of time. Do you remember that CRAZY car ride when we were in St. Thomas going to Sapphire Beach and we thought we were going to die? The huge buses here drive that exact way. But you're standing up on the bus, holding onto the railing for dear life. I felt like I was on a Disneyland ride. Super interesting :).

One of my teachers here served in Teresina, so she showed us pictures because it was our last day. It's actually extremely pretty in a different way. She told us that us "white people" are guaranteed to burn no matter what and poop ourselves (diarrhea) at least once. Hahahaha! I think I'm always going to have some extra panties on me for the first couple of months. Hahahaha!

I'm going to try my hardest and best to write back as much as I can, but I have no idea how it'll go the first couple of weeks. Here in the CTM I've actually been writing a lot when I'm not supposed to. I hardly get any free time here, so I don't know how it'll be out in the field. I love you so much and I'll try my hardest to write as much as I can.

I got your package thing last Wednesday! Thank you so much! I also got your letter today (Nov 26). I haven't had time to read it yet because of departure meetings and packing! So I leave the CTM at 4:20 am on Tuesday, Nov. 27 and I arrive in Teresina sometime around noon. It's been crazy today! I love you so much! I'm having another elder give this to Cheney's so hopefully you'll get it :).

Elder Steed

Temple-super cool experience

Mom! Hi... :)

So I definitely had no idea that I got a Thanksgiving thing from Chenney's, but we're going out right after this, so I'll have to stop by and check! Thanks! When Sarah and you told me you were going to Utah for Thanksgiving this week it definitely made me a little homesick, but not too bad! I just liked going to Grandma's house and hanging with everyone. You need to get Steven to email me!

I heard that there's been been no school for the past couple days and I wish that was the same case here ;) We got to do something super cool this past Monday and so you'll get to read all about it when you get my letter from Chenney's!! And sorry I haven't been sending you more pictures. It's a real pain to do the whole process, but I'll definitely be sending more once I get out into the field because I'll be able to email them, so no worries!!

Today was the last time I'd be able to go to the temple for the next 22 months. It was a super cool experience. I spent a good 15 minutes praying in the celestial room about lots of stuff. It brought back memories of the first time we went to the temple together. It was definitely a good morning!

So I put this in my letter, but I really want you to watch a video with everyone when you get up to Utah. It's called "Cabo Verde. Land of Light". They speak portuguese in the video and I was able to understand most of it which was super awesome! I felt I could really relate to that video because that's almost EXACTLY how we talk here in Brasil. I feel Teresina will look pretty close to Cabo Verde (which makes the video even better). I think I've seen that video about 8ish times now. It gives me chills every time. Yeah, it's really hard to explain, but just watch it with everyone :)

Tell everyone I said I love them!! I miss you a ton Mom!

Love Elder Steed

Stuff got real!

Each week after church, we do a district meeting and it's where we meet up as a district, talk about goals, and have two people give about a 15 minute lesson each. I was asked by Elder A to give one of the lessons at the meeting, but he didn't ask me until Saturday afternoon. I was super sour after he asked me because he forgot to do his job and he only turned to me because I was his companion. And to top it all off, our Branch President came to sit in on the meeting at the last minute. Saturday night I prayed for a soft heart because I was so angry. It literally ruined the rest of Saturday night for me because he asked me to give the lesson. I didn't notice a huge change in how I felt after my prayer, but I did notice that I said to myself, "Eh . . . I was assigned to do the lesson and it won't get done by me complaining." This morning (Sunday) when I was preparing the lesson, my mind felt so open and all sorts of ideas of what to talk on came to me. We had to talk on a Christ-like attribute and I chose humility (haha . . . so fitting) for some reason. The lesson turned out amazing and I actually had more material prepared than I needed. The spirit was definitely present when I taught because I could feel it there. I'm in a lot better mood now thanks to a poor choice made by Elder A - hahahaha.

I don't think I gave you a FHE idea last week, but I've got a really good one for this week. It's another video on lds.org called "Cabo Verde, Land of Light". (http://www.mormonchannel.org/video?v=1621834644001) It's about this small island off of the coast of Africa. It talks about how the church was started there. It's a newer video made by the church so it was really well done and the coolest part about the video is that the people there speak Portuguese. Even though there are subtitles, I was still able to understand what they were saying which was really awesome. The elder who showed us this video said it reminded him of how Teresina will be. The people in the video have a slight different accent than what we're speaking, but for the most part, listen to how they talk and that's pretty much how we sound. It definitely gave me chills after watching it.

So I hit 174 lbs a couple days ago and that's the most I've been.  It was right after I ate, so I'm a little less than that, but I was about 160 when I left. Haha.  16ish pounds while I've been here.  That's my goal though, I gotta put on some pounds...in a healthy way.  I've been working out a little, so I hope I come back completely ripped...almost like a Greek god.  Bahaha, yeah I wish!  I'm sure I'll sweat it all off when I get out into the field in a week.

One of my teachers here is so crazy.  In a good way.  He's probably one of the funniest, most random person I've met.  He's a white ginger from Italy that speaks Portuguese and lives in Brasil.  I don't think I've learned one thing from him because all we do when he teaches us is mess around which kind of stinks, but he lightens up my day.  This past week we had a peanut butter party.  Our teacher makes his own peanut butter, which is the coolest thing.  So we bought the bread and some honey and spent some good bonding time eating peanut butter and honey sandwiches and chatting.  The peanut butter was super good!  It definitely beat anything you could buy at the store.

Oh dang!  So we went proselyting (don't know how to spell it) this past Monday and it was super awesome!  Each elder was given two copies of the Book of Mormon and so being in a triple, we had six with two extras from Elder A.  If I did my math right, that should be somewhere around eight copies of the Book of Mormon.  All the other companionships had only four copies.  At the beginning, we had a goal of handing out three copies.  We ended up handing out all eight.  The first man we approached was unloading bags from a car and we thought we could help him and then share a message.  As we awkwardly walked up to him, he rudely said "no".  We didn't really know what else to say, so we awkwardly walked away.  If I was watching from a distance, I would've probably laughed so hard because of how weird and awkward it was.  In the moment, I told myself, "crap...this is going to be a long day."  But looking back on it now, I'm laughing as well.  Probably no more than 8 minutes later, we gave our first Book of Mormon to a lady trying to jay-walk.  About ten minutes later, a business man who looked like a he was in a hurry approached us.  I was the one who started the conversation with him.  He said he was late to a meeting and so we asked if we could walk and talk with him, and he accepted.  He ended up being extremely interested in the Book of Mormon.  He said he's always seen the missionaries, churches, and temples before, but he's never bothered to talk to anyone about it.  He was so excited that we gave him the Book of Mormon for free and he said he would call the church if had questions while reading.  We then went about Sao Paulo (the same area/boundaries we have for P-Day) and talked to a few drunk people (they love to talk) and to this stubborn Chinese lady.  She was so committed on the bible that she didn't believe in another book.  We probably spent 20 minutes talking with her, but she still wouldn't take a Book of Mormon.

About this fourthish book we handed out was to this motorcyclist.  This was probably the coolest thing that happened this day.  So we were stopped on the sidewalk because we were writing the phone number people can call for questions about the church in the front cover.  As we were doing this, I noticed a guy on a motorcycle pull up about 15 yards away.  After we were done, I said, "let's go get that guy on the bike."  He had probably been there for a good five minutes before we approached him, just sitting on his motorcycle, as if he were waiting for us.  So we started talking to him about the Book of Mormon and a little about our purpose as missionaries.  I know for a fact that the Holy Ghost was testifying to him about the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon as we spoke to him.  I know for a fact that I saw the Light of Christ in his eyes.  I know for a fact that that man had no reason to stop, except to hear what we had to say to him and to be given the Book of Mormon.  I say this because right after we gave him the Book of Mormon and started walking away, we saw him put his helmet back on and ride away.  The smile he had on his face when we were talking to him gave me hope that maybe these next two years are possible.  That maybe I can speak Portuguese with only eight weeks of studying.  Stuff got real that day.  These are real people, not just members or other missionaries pretending to be investigators.

Elder Steed

Senioritis

During Sacrament meeting today, Elder A leaned over to me and said that he's starting to get senioritis for the CTM. Haha. I'm starting to feel the same way. It's really cool to see all the smurfs (new missionaries) struggling with the language because I used to be in that same situation. I still struggle a lot, but I know a LOT more than I did when I first came in. We're one of the older groups here so it literally feels like being a senior in high school again, where you can joke with the teachers, mess around, and still get away with it. Hahaha. I'm starting to feel like a robot though. I was just about to get in the shower this morning and I started thinking about random things and all of a sudden I was walking back to my room. I was so confused and I told myself I needed to go back and take a shower, but I already had and I didn't realize it. It was seriously one of the weirdest things.

A super funny thing to do to the Brasilians here is to have them say "world, word, ward". They just look at you with the most lost expression on their face because to them, it sounds like the same exact word. Hahaha

So in my last letter, I mentioned that I was going to try to wake up early to study. Every day, except for the day we went to the temple, I woke up at 5:00 am to study my scriptures for an hour. I grabbed my scriptures and a chair, went out in the hallway, and started to study (not just read) under a dim light. Even though I was pretty tired throughout the day, it was worth it. My mind was clearer and I was able to study (during personal study time) the things that would help me the most. It was a huge sacrifice because as a missionary, you need all the sleep you can get, but I figured I could sleep as much as I want after these two years :).

Today at church, for some reason the AC wasn't working and it was ridiculously hot. We STILL had to have our suits on. They opened a window and turned on a fan, but that hardly did anything. Someone then told me that this will be nothing compared to what it is like in Teresina.

I had TRC this week and we were investigators. I had to be the main investigators in one of the rooms and I was kind of nervous because I didn't think my Portuguese was good enough. I ended up doing a really great job and the elders teaching me did a really great job as well. There was this funny TRC this week. Some elders in 39-B (the other half of us that came out of Atlanta together) played a super funny harmless prank on these two weekers. Right when it started, and they all sat down, the investigators (my friends from 39-B) offered the two elders some cracker type thing. They put it on the table and said in Portuguese, "if you eat this, you will die." Having no idea what they said, the two elders said, "Oh, thank you!" and started to eat them. Just how smooth and perfect it went, made it that much funnier. We were all laughing so hard because these guys were so clueless. The guys from 39-B went up to the two elders afterwards and told them what they did and they started laughing because they thought it was the funniest thing as well.

Dad, so about the mission prep class you're doing . . . something that I thought was really helpful is knowing when to transition between each elder so the lesson flows real nicely. Have them learn the first lesson about the restoration and then get them to plan out who will say what and so forth. And then have them flip the roles, so each elder will get a chance to teach the other side of the lesson they didn't get to the first time. They need to know BOTH sides of the lesson, because here in the CTM, they stress the point of "teaching people, not lessons". Yeah, sure, it's awesome if they can teach a planned lesson, but sometimes they'll need to teach about something they didn't plan before hand.

Another thing we do is a simple mock investigator session. One companion teaches another elder that becomes an investigator. That one elder, who is the investigator, thinks of a friend back home and becomes that friend or person he knows. We usually try to pick a friend that has some sort of problem or questions about the church. The companionship then teaches this investigator as if it was the first visit. So all they're trying to do is figure out the problem, get to know what the person knows about the gospel, and then go from there. We usually don't teach a full-on lesson. It's just the first visit, so maybe also have them quickly introduce the Book of Mormon and invite the investigator to read and pray about it.

Another fun thing that I think you guys would get a kick out of would be doing something like TRC where you teach a lesson while being recorded. A good situation for that would be that it's just a follow-up visit to see how the investigator is doing. The investigator has already been taught the first lesson or so. It turns out that the investigator hasn't been reading the Book of Mormon or praying because they don't have enough time. The companionship then has to teach why the Book of Mormon is so important, the importance of prayer, and then maybe teach how to pray. This would be good practice for the young men to stay on their toes. We've done this situation so many times here so it's just natural for us. It would also be good for them to see body language, posture, and how they looked when they reacted to certain situations.

I hope that helped. It's not a whole lot, but it's some super basic things that'll have them be ahead of the game when they serve a mission. Oh! Another thing - teach them some "confusing" scriptures. I'm sure you can talk to some super scriptorian about more scriptures in detail, but there are some scriptures out there that are confusing (and I'm sure you already know this). For example . . The Lord's Prayer in Luke 11:2-4. The Lord says that when you pray, always use this prayer. You can counter this with the first sentence in 3 Nephi 13:7. Another one is John 17:20-23 and Mosiah 15:2-5 where it talks about the trinity and how Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost are one. Dang, so I don't have my scriptures on me right now, but you could use the scriptures where Christ is being baptized. Anyways . . . I hope you get my point with this.

So real quick, a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy came and spoke to us today, Elder Costa. It was really awesome.

Love you!

Elder Steed

Minha Familia (My Family)!

Minha Familia (My Family)!

These weeks are starting to go by faster and faster. It's weird to think that I'll be out in the field in a couple of weeks.

Getting enough sleep each night is rough. I'm grateful I've got good Brasilian roommates who want to go to bed on time, but sometimes they're not so great when they wakeup. The Brasilians have their P-day on Thursday and the bus for the temple leaves early in the morning, so they wake up before us. They are SOOO LOUD! It's funny because it's as if Elder A, Elder H and I don't exist. This past Thursday they even turned on the light and started messing around. Luckily I was already up by then, but the other two were still trying to sleep. Other than this, my Brasilian roommates are awesome. I don't think I've had one night here where I've slept through the entire night. It's either too cold (surprisingly), too hot, someone wakes up to go to the bathroom, or someone starts talking in their sleep. I always wake up in the middle of the night. I'm also waking up with little tiny red bumps on me and we're pretty sure they're bug bites. I've only got a couple so I'm not really worried. Although, I do have one on my right butt cheek. How this happened . . . I have no idea.

This past week, we've been giving an elder a taste of his own medicine. It's seriously been the highlight of my week. This is about the one elder that I was struggling with at the beginning of my time here at the CTM. For some reason he loves to steal and hide everyone's stuff. Multiple times he's taken my pen, scriptures, and books when I haven't been looking. And it's not just me, he's done this to everyone in my district. A couple of elders in the next district thought it'd be funny if they hid his bag. So they took it and placed it on the ledge just outside of our window so it couldn't be seen unless you leaned out of the window. Once this elder realized his bag was gone, he snapped and it was probably one of the funniest things I've seen. He started to go off on elders in our district and blaming it on them, even though we had no idea who did it. He threatened us multiple times, with things if he didn't get his bag. Elder R and I were busting a gut because of the way he reacted. To top it off, he said, "It's one of my biggest pet peeves when people touch my things and especially when they hide it from me." After crying about the whole thing, he went and got a teacher to talk to us about it, but we had no idea who did it. We didn't know who did it until after the bag was given to him. You really had to be there! :)

Thank you SOOOO much for that candy loot you gave me :). It definitely made my day! Even though we didn't do anything different for Halloween here in Brasil, I still felt like a little kid while digging through all the candy to see what I got. Too bad I don't have Parker here to pawn off all my gross candy on for better stuff :). No worries though, I went through all that candy to make sure I didn't get any of those orange prescription bottles with animal crackers in it. (Background info - Several years ago a woman took her old prescription bottles and filled them with animal crackers and gave them to the children at the church trunk-or-treat. Thankfully the parents discarded them before the kids ate the contaminated crackers.) Oh the weird stuff you get at Trunk-or-Treats. I guess the lady at Chenney's is using my picture to advertise for that special package thing, so you should try to look for that.

FHE idea of the week: There are three videos on the lds.org website that are about three minutes each. It's with Elder Bednar and they're about the light of Christ and the Holy Ghost. I'm pretty sure they're one of the newer videos on there, so they shouldn't be too hard to find. I was very impressed at how well the church made these videos. I hope you haven't already seen them! 

Here are the videos Connor referred to:

http://www.lds.org/pages/mormon-messages?lang=eng#patterns-of-light-the-light-of-christ

http://www.lds.org/pages/mormon-messages?lang=eng#patterns-of-light-discerning-light

http://www.lds.org/pages/mormon-messages?lang=eng#patterns-of-light-spirit-of-revelation

We just found the most horrible thing in the scriptures. The word "burnt offerings" in the Portuguese scriptures is "holocaustos". That translates to holocaust. Terrible :(.

So this past week (only Monday and Tuesday so far) I've been waking up at 5:15 am so that I can get more personal study time. I wake up, roll out of bed, grab the chair from my room, and go out in the hall to read my scriptures for a good 45 minutes before I have to start getting ready. I've actually started to notice a difference by doing this. First off, I hit a huge wall, get super tired, and eventually fall asleep at around 2ish. But it's only about a 5 minute power nap and then I'm good to go again. Second, I really do think waking up earlier has helped me throughout the day. For some reason I'm more willing to open my books when everyone else is messing around. I've also found that I've had better/more effective study sessions. Coincidentally my morning study sessions match up with what I'm taught in the afternoon by my teachers, so I get a super helpful review, along with help if I didn't understand something I studied that morning. I thought it was super awesome! Awhile ago when I was up at school, I wrote a quote in my scriptures. "Put your trust on the altar of God and quietly walk away." I'm honestly trying my hardest to do my part to study the language and to gain a stronger testimony. I'm trusting in God that by taking that blind step and waking up earlier, I'll be blessed with help in the language.

For any potential missionaries who are going to Brasil, please read this. I guarantee it will help. I wish I would've known this before I got into the CTM, but for studying . . . Make a goal each week to memorize a column of irregular verbs on the yellow verb conjugation card they give you when you get here. Also, during your language study time, start in the green book with the world on it. Even if the topic doesn't make sense, study it anyways and do the questions that come along with that topic. If something doesn't make sense or is really confusing, ask your teacher in the next class that you have with them. Good Luck!

We had devotional last night and they played a video of Elder Bednar when he spoke at the Provo MTC a couple of weeks back. It was an amazing talk. He spoke on the pattern of teaching effectively. Sounds kinda weird, but it was super good. He asked us to go through the General Conference Ensign and highlight the doctrine taught, the invitations sent, and the promised blessings if we do those invitations. I really want to do that, but they only have Portuguese Liahonas at the Distribution Center. I don't know how this would work, but if you could figure out a way for me to get one , that'd be really awesome!

So about washing my clothes - I do it like any normal washer and dryer.  They have a machine here that automatically pumps the detergent. They have four washers and four dryers for each floor. The dryers are a little too powerful so I think I'm going to start hang drying my pants. Everything else is fine, but they chewed up Elder A's pants a little bit a couple of weeks ago.

Love You!!

Elder Steed